Hi Breja76,
Welcome to the forum. You are blessed to have a lovely husband and children. I really feel for you having to work the night shift. You are definitely busy.
I wish I could recommend a simple solution for you to have a home job with regular pay. Those are really hard to come by. Have you tried asking around in your area to see if any of the businesses would let you telecommute? That would probably be one of the most convenient options, but again, hard to come by.
Most of what we forum members do is internet marketing. It's not a regular 'job' but is more like starting your own business. It takes a lot of time (which you don't have) to get the groundwork laid before you start getting regular income coming in. Once you do, the income is pretty steady and usually grows steadily, too.
Are you able to consider something like that? It sounds like you won't have the time, but in my experience, the busiest people seem to be able to accomplish the most. Those who have plenty of time on their hands don't really get much done at all.

Let us know if you have specific questions we can help with. It would be wonderful for you to be able to stay home with the kids and still bring in an income.
Blessings,
Angie